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Judging in Love, Not in Condemnation, There is one Judge and it isn't us


 


"Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven."
—Luke 6:37

As Christians, we are called to live in love, extending grace and mercy to those around us. However, it's easy to fall into the trap of harshly judging others when we see their flaws and failures. We may forget that we too are imperfect, susceptible to the very sins we criticize in others. The Bible calls us to a different standard—one where love and compassion guide our judgments, not condemnation.

Judgment Tempered by Love

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus teaches us, “Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.” (Matthew 7:1-2. This passage is a reminder that the way we judge others is the same way we will be judged. If we judge harshly, without love or understanding, we set ourselves up for a similar judgment.

Jesus' words encourage us to be mindful of how we assess others, urging us to approach their weaknesses with the same love and mercy we would want for ourselves. Harsh judgment not only hurts others but also isolates us. When we judge without love, we risk alienating those who might otherwise support us when we inevitably stumble.

The Importance of Compassionate Correction

The Apostle Paul writes in Galatians 6:1, “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted. This verse highlights the importance of restoring others gently, with an awareness of our own vulnerabilities. When we approach others with meekness and compassion, we help them grow and heal, creating a community of grace.

When correction is needed, it should always be done in a spirit of love, with the intention of building up rather than tearing down. We must remember that we, too, are capable of falling and may one day need the very grace we offer to others.

 

“Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.” (Luke 6:36. When we choose to judge harshly, we not only hurt others but also distance ourselves from God's mercy. By failing to extend grace, we risk being left alone in our time of need, without the support of those we have pushed away.

Harsh judgment creates division and loneliness, while love and mercy foster connection and community. If we judge others without compassion, we may find that when we are in need, there is no one left to offer us a helping hand.

 

Jesus did not come to condemn the world but to save it (John 3:17). He spent His ministry reaching out to the broken, the sinful, and the outcast with love and compassion. As His followers, we are called to do the same. When we judge others, let it be with the intention of helping them grow closer to God, not pushing them away.

“For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Matthew 6:14-15. Forgiveness and grace are at the heart of our faith. By offering these to others, we open the door to receiving them ourselves.

 

When we judge others, let it be with a heart full of love and a desire to lift them up. Harsh judgment isolates, but love and mercy build bridges. Remember, the grace you extend today may be the grace you need tomorrow. Let us reflect Christ in all we do, ensuring that when we fall, we are not alone, but surrounded by the love we have shown to others.


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