Remembering Amber Nelon Kistler : A Unique Encourager

 When I first met Amber, it was like meeting a bright spark in a world that often felt dim. It was about ten years ago at a concert in Seminole. Amid the music and laughter, our paths crossed, and it didn't take long for our friendly rivalry to surface. I was a staunch Celtics fan, proud of Boston's storied franchise and their legendary players. Amber, on the other hand, was a die-hard Lakers fan, with a special admiration for Kobe Bryant. Our playful debates about which team was superior became a cherished part of our interactions. Despite our differences in basketball loyalties, we shared a mutual respect for each other's passion and dedication.

One memorable moment was when I gifted her a limited edition Kobe "Black Mamba" hat. Her eyes lit up with excitement, and I joked that she seemed more thrilled about the hat than about seeing me. But that was Amber—her love for the Lakers and Kobe was infectious, and her enthusiasm was always genuine and uplifting.

Amber was truly one of God's uniquely gifted encouragers. She always wanted to please Christ in everything she did, and anyone who knew her could tell. Her faith was evident in her kindness and grace, and she inspired others to live with the same love and devotion. Even though she faced her own challenges, she always made time to listen and offer support to those around her. She had an innate ability to uplift others, never letting her personal struggles interfere with her desire to help. In a world where judgment can be quick and harsh, Amber stood out as someone who embraced kindness and understanding. She never judged anyone; it simply wasn't her way. Her heart was too big for that.

Amber also had a special love for Disney World, which she called "her favorite place on earth." The magic and joy of Disney perfectly matched her own spirit, and she found delight in its wonder and whimsy. Her stories about her trips there were always filled with happiness and nostalgia, reflecting her appreciation for the simple joys in life.

I will deeply miss Amber and her unwavering encouragement. She was a rare gem in a sea of critics, someone who genuinely cared and made a positive impact on everyone she encountered. Yet, in my heart, I find comfort knowing she has moved beyond the struggles of this world. She has had the curtain pulled back for her, revealing a place where pain and scars no longer exist. The only scars now are those of the hands that hold her, scars that remind us of the love and sacrifice that transcend this earthly life.

Amber's legacy lives on in the hearts of those she touched, and I am grateful to have known such a remarkable soul. Her spirit of encouragement and love will continue to inspire me and others, reminding us to always choose kindness and support over judgment and criticism.